Last night and today I was browsing through blogs. I came along to this one article that really caught my attention. It's from http://www.positivityblog.com/ written Henrik Edberg. This article is all about having self -doubt and how to conquer it.
Self-doubt is really another form of self-destructing. The reason that I did not start a blog or website a long time ago is because I doubted that I could really do. Who wants to read what I have to say? I am not the most intelligent or the smartest person in the world, but do you know what? None of that really matters.
self-doubt comes from low self esteem. People telling you that you can not do something. It comes from being afraid of failure. Once you get past all those thoughts, you are on your way to rediscovering yourself and becoming a new and improved you.
What I did to overcome this bad habit, was I had to let go of how I felt people perceived me. The people that love me will love me regardless if I fail. The people that don't love me really doesn't matter to me, so what do I care how they feel about me.
I also have to change my way of thinking. If I think that a situation is going to have a negative outcome then 9 times out of 10 that negative way of thinking will come to pass. You have to have an optimistic view point if you want a positive outcome.
I think we all have those moments when we do not think something is going to work out. That little voice that we here is self-doubt. We need to get rid of that little voice. Scream higher than that voice and just believe that you can do it.
Self-doubt is really another form of self-destructing. The reason that I did not start a blog or website a long time ago is because I doubted that I could really do. Who wants to read what I have to say? I am not the most intelligent or the smartest person in the world, but do you know what? None of that really matters.
self-doubt comes from low self esteem. People telling you that you can not do something. It comes from being afraid of failure. Once you get past all those thoughts, you are on your way to rediscovering yourself and becoming a new and improved you.
What I did to overcome this bad habit, was I had to let go of how I felt people perceived me. The people that love me will love me regardless if I fail. The people that don't love me really doesn't matter to me, so what do I care how they feel about me.
I also have to change my way of thinking. If I think that a situation is going to have a negative outcome then 9 times out of 10 that negative way of thinking will come to pass. You have to have an optimistic view point if you want a positive outcome.
I think we all have those moments when we do not think something is going to work out. That little voice that we here is self-doubt. We need to get rid of that little voice. Scream higher than that voice and just believe that you can do it.